Family and Relationships

Learn about family and relationships in Tetum language

Module 2: Family and Relationships

Skill 3 – Talking about your family

Talking about your family in Tetum allows you to share personal details, strengthen connections, and show respect for family values—an important part of Timorese culture. In this lesson, you'll learn how to say how many family members you have, describe their relationships to you, and mention basic details about them.

This lesson will help you:

  • Say how many siblings or children you have.
  • Introduce family members with their names and roles.
  • Talk about where your family members live or work.

2. Vocabulary

Tetum English Translation Notes
Família Family Can mean immediate or extended family
Iha Have / There is Depending on context
Maun Older brother Male sibling older than you
Biin Older sister Female sibling older than you
Alin Younger sibling Gender-neutral younger sibling
Oan Child / Son / Daughter General term for offspring
Servisu Work Verb or noun depending on context
Hela Live/Reside Verb meaning to live or stay somewhere

3. Examples

Example 1 – Saying how many siblings you have

Tetum: Hau iha maun rua.

English: I have two older brothers.

Example 2 – Introducing your mother

Tetum: Hau-nia Inan naran Rosa

English: My mother's name is Rosa.

Example 3 – Talking about family location

Tetum: Hau nia familia hela iha Dili.

English: My family lives in Dili.

4. Practice

A. Fill in the blanks:
  1. Hau iha ______ tolu. (I have three children)
  2. Hau-nia ______ naran Ana. (My older sister's name is Ana)
  3. Hau-nia familia ______ iha Baucau. (My family lives in Baucau)
B. Translate to Tetum:
  1. I have one younger brother.
  2. My father works in the market.
  3. My family lives in Timor-Leste.

5. Answer Key & Explanation

A. Fill in the blanks
  1. oan → "Hau iha oan tolu." = "I have three children."
  2. Biin → "Hau-nia bin naran Ana." = "My older sister's name is Ana."
  3. hela → "Hau-nia familia hela iha Baucau." = "My family lives in Baucau."
B. Translation
  1. Hau iha Alin mane ida.
  2. Hau-nia Aman servisu iha merkadu.
  3. Hau-nia familia hela iha Timor-Leste.
Explanation:
  • Use maun/biin for older siblings depending on gender, and alin for younger siblings.
  • iha means "have" in this context; hela means "live/reside."
  • Family topics are important in Tetum culture and often appear early in conversations.