Everyday Conversations

Master the art of Everyday Conversations

Module 2: Everyday Conversations

Skill 1: Asking "How are you?" & Responding

Being able to ask someone how they are and respond naturally is an essential skill for daily communication. In Indonesian, there are several ways to check on someone's well-being, ranging from formal to casual expressions.

In this lesson, you will learn:

  • How to ask "How are you?" formally and informally.
  • How to respond positively or neutrally.
  • How to keep the conversation going after asking.

1. Key Vocabulary

Indonesian English Usage Notes
Apa kabar? How are you? Common and polite
Bagaimana kabarnya? How are things? Slightly formal
Gimana kabarnya? How's it going? Informal
Baik-baik saja I'm fine Neutral
Baik, terima kasih Good, thank you Polite
Lumayan Not bad / so-so Neutral
Kurang baik Not so good Neutral
Kamu sendiri? And you? Informal
Anda sendiri? And you? Formal

2. Examples & Mini Dialogues

Dialogue 1 – Formal

A: Selamat sore, Pak Danu. Apa kabar?

B: Selamat sore. Baik, terima kasih. Anda sendiri?

A: Baik juga.

Dialogue 2 – Informal

A: Hai, gimana kabarnya?

B: Lumayan. Kamu sendiri?

A: Baik-baik saja.

Dialogue 3 – Neutral

A: Apa kabar?

B: Kurang baik hari ini.

A: Oh, semoga cepat membaik.

3. Practice

A. Fill in the blanks:
  1. Apa ______? (How are you?)
  2. Baik, ______ kasih. (Good, thank you)
  3. Kamu ______? (And you?)
B. Translate to Indonesian:
  1. How's it going? (informal)
  2. I'm fine.
  3. Not so good today.

4. Answer Key & Explanation

A. Fill in the blanks
  1. kabar
  2. terima
  3. sendiri
B. Translation
  1. Gimana kabarnya?
  2. Baik-baik saja.
  3. Kurang baik hari ini.
Explanation:
  • Apa kabar? is the most common and polite way to ask "How are you?"
  • Informal speech often shortens words (Bagaimana → Gimana).
  • To continue the conversation, you can ask Kamu sendiri? or Anda sendiri? depending on formality.